Via
Bridget "Mortgage Mama" McGee (CrossCountry Mortgage, Inc. 410-960-2061):
Active Rain Meetups-One Of My Favorite Things To Do
If you haven't been to or scheduled to attend an ActiveRain Meetup, WHY NOT? You don't know what you are missing!
We are very lucky in Maryland to have some of the most
prolific, intelligent, professional, kind, funny, open, honest,
beautiful, friendly....well I think you get the idea....ActiveRain
members around.

OK, I know that most of the folks that are ACTIVE ActiveRain
members don't come to the party if they don't have something going on,
but these people are truly amazing on and off the computer. I bet if
you attended one (or more) of these meetups, you found the same!
I attended my first ActiveRain event a few years ago, when
Margaret Rome held a very special Open House. I have attended every one
in the area since. Many of these folks have become business
associates, all of them have become mentors, and most of them have truly
become friends. Each meetup is different, but there is always a common
thread...sharing, friendship, positivity, laughs, and lots of pictures!

These are not folks that are complaining about not being
busy enough and don't have anything better to do. These are folks that
have been and are very successful (SUPER BUSY) in real estate and in
life. They come from different companies, but they don't try to recruit
each other or poo poo the others business model. They celebrate each
others successes, refer business, ask and answer questions....They care
about each other, having gotten to know them first by reading their
posts here on ActiveRain. They are authentic. What you see is really
what you get.
Margaret Rome said "It's not about
the company, it's about the person. We don't care where they hang their
license, but how they treat their clients and our referrals."

I am a loan officer. I don't attend meetups to solicit
business, although over time many of these folks have referred clients
to me, and I have referred business to them. I don't go with a rate
sheet or reasons why they should use me. Every lender touts "great
rates and great service", my goal is to meet folks and get to know them
in person, share a laugh (many laughs, really), good food and great
conversation. If there is a good fit, the business will come. When it
does, I am grateful and do everything in my power to ensure that the
referrals are well taken care of. When it doesn't that's OK too.

I made the mistake of telling Margaret that I didn't get a
chance to post this yesterday because I didn't "have time". As soon as
it came out of my mouth I realized what a silly thing that was to say
(especially to Margaret who somehow finds time to call members, mentor,
post daily, AND sell a ton of Real Estate. No one has any more or less
time than I do. We all have business, family, life... but everyone who
is ACTIVE realizes the importance of this forum, of the connections.

I have fallen down a bit on my blogging of late. The meetup was a great way to reconnect. The online Boot Camp will help too.
Take the time to get out from behind the computer monitor and
connect, truly connect. Blogging is a form of social media. I think
sometimes we're so caught up in the media, we forget the social. If
there wasn't a meetup scheduled in your area, pick up the phone and
invite someone (or a few someone's) for lunch or for coffee, or for a
cocktail or a walk. We are blessed to have folks (Margaret Rome and
Martha Brown so far) who have been willing to take the lead in our area
and the group is growing.

I am proud to say that several folks I personally invited joined in the fun:
- Andrea Bedard (Fabulous and caring Montgomery and Anne
Arundel County Realtor...specializes in military buyers and
sellers-a lifestyle she is intimately familiar with)
- Diane Phillips (a sweet, hard-working Carroll County and PA
Realtor-, both wonderful people and bloggers whom I would highly
recommend you follow if you are not already.
-
Denise Litzau of Property Title & Escrow (She was kind
enough to take the group pictures, unfortuately I missed capturing
her)-I have worked with these folks for years and re-connected
recently....I sent Denise an AR invite, I will let you know when she
starts blogging. She was impressed with this group! They are offering
$295 plus title insurance on purchases over $300K. They also offer free tax assessment appeals. Try them, you won't be disappointed.
Margaret's client Lucy Clark was there too. She is not only the previous owner of the Chocolate House...
http://activerain.com/blogsview/2124363/this-is-a-reblog-by-c-tann-starr-you-missed-the-bixler-church-open-house
she has started a business that includes custom floor plans
and custom maps for Real Estate. Lucy has a ton of ideas and will Floor
You (and your clients). This is pretty cool stuff that would fit
really well with the Single Property Websites I offer to my realtor
partners to add to their marketing of their listings.

All in all, there were 15 of us...we had a few more who
RSVP'd, but were unable to attend. Ellie McIntire (and a few
others) managed to scoot before the group picture, but I got to catch
her with Diane and her newly signed copy of "Sell Your Home the Right Rome Way."

I bet the next Maryland meetup will be even bigger. Martha
Brown is already planning one in Annapolis for May when Jeff Dowler is
in town. You know I will be there, won't you join us?
In the meantime...anybody want to have lunch?
ActiveRain Meetups-One of my favorite things to do!
Warm Regards,
Bridget McGee Maryland Mortgage Mama NMLS# 196068 CrossCountry Mortgage, Inc. 410-960-2061 EHO
If you are considering purchasing a home in Maryland and want to be
sure you are mortgage ready, my brother Tony and I will be happy to
help! We help to make the mortgage process a pleasure!
If you already own your home, we are happy to provide a no-cost
mortgage review to help you to determine if refinancing may be in your
best interest. Please contact me at 410-960-2061.